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When to send a thank-you

Sooner is better.

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A prompt note feels most sincere, but a late note is always better than none.

Rules of thumb

  • Gifts and favors: within a week or two
  • Job interviews: within a day
  • Hosting a meal or stay: within a few days
  • Wedding gifts: as soon as you can; many etiquette guides suggest within about three months
  • Late? Send it anyway, with a simple apology for the delay

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